Phyllis Nitkin

Phyllis Skolsky Nitkin, a lifelong Peekskill resident and beloved community advocate, passed away April 20, 2025, at the age of 83, surrounded by her family.

Born to Dorothy and Milton Skolsky, Phyllis grew up in Peekskill, where her parents owned Skolsky's Stationery and Gift Shop. She carried forward their entrepreneurial spirit and community-minded values, raising her own family in Peekskill and helping shape the local business landscape. As the longtime manager of Nan Flower Lingerie, she brought grace, style, and a personal touch to generations of customers. Later, she served with pride at the New York Power Authority for 15 years. A graduate of the Fashion Institute of Technology, her passion for merchandising and people was evident in all she did.

Phyllis was the founding president of Pride in Peekskill, a dedicated board member of the Paramount Center for the Arts, and the driving force behind the effort to save the local DMV office-gathering over 28,000 signatures in a remarkable show of determination and love for her town. Her efforts earned her numerous honors, including Distinguished Woman of the Year by the Peekskill-Cortlandt Chamber of Commerce and the designation of "Phyllis Nitkin Day" by the Mayor.

She had a gift for rallying others, creating connection and momentum wherever she went. Her warmth, drive, and deep pride in Peekskill were unmistakable and unforgettable.

At the center of her world was her family. Phyllis was a devoted mother to Stephen Nitkin and his wife Dana, and Jill DiMeglio. She was a proud and adoring grandmother to Jake and Jesse DiMeglio and Max and Lucas Nitkin. As a single parent who juggled many responsibilities, she modeled resilience, love, and integrity. To her grandchildren, she was simply "Meme"-a source of laughter, guidance, and unwavering support.

Phyllis leaves behind a legacy of service, strength, and love. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered in the community she loved and helped shape.